"I worry so much about my niece getting hurt."
"I can barely take care of myself"
"I don't want to have kids."
hmmmmm.
After telling Lumberjack that yet another of my girlfriends is knocked up (more to come on that) those were his thoughts.
Problem? Deal-breaker? (did we even have a deal?)
What to do when your sort-of boyfriend, that you only see once a month, that you do not think about long term, drops that bomb?
You know, I was thinking last night about just how great things have been with Ceelo since I decided that once he leaves we're done, it takes off the stress of the relationship. And we've been doing fantastic. It made me think, just how many relationships could work if you just lived it day by day, without pressure..how many things would change? How many things would men do, because they fell in love? How many things would women do, because they're not worried?
ReplyDeleteThink about it. :)
I still say you need to have a fake over the phone orgasm. Then see where he stands.
ReplyDeleteas a person who says that sometimes, it's also possible that he doesn't mean it. you know, just possible.
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I think dudes often say they this and don't mean it. Or they're just saying it for the sake of testing it out; putting it out there to see what happens. Or they forget to add "right now" at the end.
ReplyDeleteBut personally for me, if you definitely want kids and he definitely doesn't, that's a deal breaker.